If you are looking for fun things to do on a date or advice on where to go we can help.We will answer some of the dating or romance questions asked by those who visit our For Your Date site. The answers will be straight forward, sometimes sarcastic, sometimes funny, sometimes even shocking! If you've got the nerve to Ask KrazeeLuv send your questions to krazeeluv@4yourDate.com . Sometimes your answers will be sent directly to you and those that we feel will benefit everyone will be answered right here. So, if you've got the nerve, send your questions to KrazeeLuv.
Q. I'm 28 years old and I've been going out with the same girl for 2 years now. I'm starting to get restless and board with just doing the same old thing everyday. She is a great girl but something tells me this isn't going to work out. What should I do?
Restless in Reno
A. If you're not sure after 2 years, chances are this relationship is not for either one of you. If it's just a matter of getting bored doing the same old things. That's pretty easy for anyone to fix.....do something else!
The truth as I see it is that you're bored with the same old person. You are not only being unfair to her but not being truthful with yourself if you stay. At 28 years old don't you think you're old enough to know the difference.
KrazeeLuv
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Q. I'm seeing 2 guys and they both said I have to choose one or the other. They both have their great qualities and I don't know how to choose. Can you Help?
A. First things first, choose the one with the greatest qualities and give him 4 days a week. The one with the lesser qualities only gets 3 days. Oh yeah, don't forget we're only working on a 28 day month here! You said it I didn't.
Get some rest.......KrazeeLuv
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Q. I'm trying to get this girl to like me. I mean, like me more than a friend. Any ideas? We have been friends for 5 years and I've seen her go through alot. I know she doesn't know how I feel but I'm not sure how to let her know!
A. After 5 years, she must have some idea of how you feel or your friendship has been estranged at best. If your not strong enough to come right out and tell her how you feel, and this person has already gone through alot, what help are you going to be to her? You've got to be able to reassure her and you're not sure about yourself. Work on that first.
Hoping you find yourself.......KrazeeLuv
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Q. Do you believe people should do date background checks on those they are going out with and are suppose to "Love"?
A. What did you do, something you don't want him to know about? I think people who are checking up on other people are probably just insecure and usually have something to hide themselves. That being said, if you feel uneasy about something in the person's past and it's making you think that you should do a background investigation, remember all the investigating in the world isn't better than going with your heart.
KrazeeLuv
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Q. I have a younger brother that goes from one bad relationship to another. I want to tell him he's about to do it again, but I don't want to hurt his feelings....HELP!
A. He's your brother, you're suppose to hurt his feelings. Isn't that better than watching him ruin his life? If he gets mad, he'll probably get over it. Maybe, I hope, I think, ah what the hell.....tell him! If he gets realy mad.........move!
KrazeeLuv
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Q: Hi! I live in Texas in a pretty small town where it's hard to find Mr./Ms. Right. I'm sure this problem happens in big cities as well as small towns. It's real easy to get a not so good reputation quickly. My question is how far you should go on a first date and should you even kiss someone on the first date?.........
Puckered & Pondering In Palestine
A: Hi Puckered..... Your question was picked because it is pretty simple to answer and pretty hard to understand. As far as how far you should go, I think you'd agree that, that question should go after kissing on the first date. The best starting point for this answer, brings to mind something someone told me once, "if you can't tell your mother what you did on your date ... you probably shouldn't have done it". That aside, What's a kiss? Is it a way of saying goodnight and thank you or is this kiss a prelude to more pleasurable, but not necessarily, proper first date behavior. Some people think, if they don't kiss or do something on the first date there won't be a second. I say, if that's your thought no matter what you do, there won't be a second date, because the first wasn't really a date to begin with. So if your intent is to truly find Mr./Ms. Right start first with respecting yourself, then you won't have to worry about how other people feel about you.
Good Luck.....KrazeeLuv
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Q: My boyfriend never seems to want to do the things I like to do. He expects me to go out with him when and where he wants to go. When we get there he usually spends more time with his friends than with me. I know he tells me he loves me, but I can't get him to understand that I don't like being treated like a prize that he shows off to his friends. How do I let him know?
Trophy on a Shelf
A: Trophy.....You already answered the question. TELL HIM! You told me and you've probably told all your friends. Guess what! you're leaving him out. But from the sound of your question he seems to be leaving you out alot too. You said he tells you he loves you, but you never said you love him. So maybe, again, just maybe, the problem's communication. Try sitting him down and telling him exactly how you feel. If that doesn't work and both of you are unable or unwilling to express your true feelings......RUUUNNNNN If all else fails, go here, GottaBreakUp.com. If you can't do it yourself.....they'll do it for you.
KrazzeeLuv
